This question is often raised! Should we or should we not stay with the in laws.
Well, again, if you viewed it another way, should we or should we not learn to be independent on our own.
Never ending arguments. My own mother always say MUST STAY WITH THE ELDERS! Must take care of them. Yet she share horror stories of how she being mistreated as a DIL. Well, can’t blame her. Her era really no body want to be DIL.
Of course nowadays we do not hear those horror MIL stories anymore. More often. People these days are different, most MIL treat their DIL probably better than their own daughter. I am staying with my MIL and I have to say there is tonnes of pros than cons.
With all the blessing, the care, the helps and everything, no doubt it’s nice to be well taken care off, but at times, I can’t help to wonder, when time comes. Will we be able to be on our own? Thats the truth that will hit me most hard.
I had fair share of adjusting life back to not having a live in maid. We were determined but I never said it was an easy battle. So I guess when it’s time for us to be on our own, we have another big adjustment to be done. With Lords
Presence, I guess I need not worry. I shall pray.