Hub always say I favor Manfred. He mention on few occasion but I never bother about it. Then one fine day I asked why he always say I favor M?
Hub say I snap more pics of Manfred. I bring Manfred for more outing than Jude. Honestly, I do enjoy outing with Manfred more cause he take car seat and stroller. I bring him out and I could see joy in his eyes when I stroll him in a mall or park or any place……
With Jude he just screams when I put him in stroller, car seat or high chair. I bring maid along in car ride and he stills scream for me to carry him throughout whole journey. Outing with Jude become not enjoyable not because I don’t get to shop or sit in Starbucks sipping my cuppa coffee, it is because it hurts me so much to see my baby crying and yelling while he could be so happy be home with me while I just carry him walk around the house.. Just so long he is in my arms, he is happy, secured and thriving.. Tell me, if you are the mom, would you do it the other way round?
After I gave birth to Jude, hub once told me that his colleague asked him a question.. “can you love 2 different kids exactly the same?” the colleague said “We cannot love 2 different kids exactly the same way, cause they are different, they are to be loved each in unique way……..”
Yes, that is why I have to tell hub, I do not love J more or love M less…. I love them the same, just in different way.
Manfred enjoy posing for me, Jude enjoy sitting on my lap while seeing kor kor poses on the screen…… So that’s why M=model, J=photographer….
Manfred love going to mall and just sit on stroller, so I bring him to mall; Jude enjoy running wild at park playing with sand and get dirty, so I let him lie down on field despite he just out from shower…
Mummies out there, what is your opinion??? Mummy with more than 1 kiddo, how do you love your children differently?? Mummy with 1 kiddo now, how you pictured your life when no2, or. 3 come along??